Self Help Isn’t Sexy

Subject: Self Help Isn't Sexy

Location: Miami, Florida

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What you will get out of this article: An understanding that real self help isn't 'fun' and 'exciting'. Doing your daily process is the key to your success. Your main objective is to make this daily 'grind' into something you love.

The daily grind.

Waking up early.

Stress & discomfort.

The daily process to improve.

The discipline.

REAL self help isn't sexy.

No one talks about this. But, if you are reading this article right now, there's a small chance I will get through to you.

You want to become more disciplined, confident, and powerful?

Do you want to become rich? Have a great body? Spiritual connection? Beautiful nourishing relationships?

Great - so does everybody else. 

We've talked about this concept before. If you could ask anyone in life if they would want to be in great shape/become rich/have incredible relationships/connection to a higher power...they would say yes.

People might lie to you and themselves that they are 'content' with living and working for someone else. Being told what to wear. What to do. Looking in the mirror and seeing a fat version of themselves staring back. 

But - underneath all of that is fear and pain avoidance. 

But let's not get distracted here.

If you are serious about becoming a great man, then understanding this principle is paramount to your success.

Personal growth isn't sexy.

Self help isn't sexy.

No one likes the process. People want the final result.

No one gives a fuck about your journey. Your problems. Your past.

People only care about what they see now.

If you workout every day for 3 years. Diet to perfection. I promise you, that you will look incredible.

Now, let's say your walking down the main road in your city. An old high school friend sees you and says what's up. 

"Wow! You look phenomenal, what did you do?"

Do you think they want the real answer? The extreme discipline, the pain and sacrifice you went through in order to reach this level? Absolutely not.

If you do make the mistake of saying that - their eyes will glaze over.

They want you to say something along the lines of "yeah dude it's purely genetics and luck".

People don't want to hear about hard work.

Yet - here I am, preaching about hard work. 

If I wanted to convert you into dollar signs, I wouldn't write this fucking article. Trust me on that.

No one wants to do the work!!!

NO ONE.

It's so fucking easy to break through the pack of mediocrity in life.

Dude, read this and understand me.

No one is willing to do the work it takes to become the person they admire.

It isn't sexy. 

In fact, it's extremely triggering.

Imagine being fat, lazy, unproductive and weak in heart/mind/character.

And you see the direct opposite of you.

A strong, powerful man.

It hurts. It's painful. Seeing someone you admire.

99.99% of people cannot live with that pain. Drink alcohol to avoid addressing it. Do drugs. Gamble. Watch porn. Eat shitty food. Complain.

Anything to avoid taking the responsibility that you have FUCKED UP in life. 

Don't be this person.

Don't look for shortcuts. The quick hack.

Do not avoid paying the price for success.

The price is your daily process.

The daily actions that over time will compound into something beautiful.

Fall in love with the daily process because life is lived in the micro.

It's easy to macro bullshit than it is to micro bullshit.

It's easy to say "yeah I had a hard time in my life because of x,y and z."

It's hard to say "I spend the entire day being lazy, unproductive, I chose to eat bad foods, avoid the gyms and succumb to my emotions."

Mike Tyson said it best.

Discipline is doing what you hate like you love it.

That's what personal growth is all about.

Committing to do the right action steps at this moment RIGHT NOW. Not later. Then repeat, repeat, repeat.

Learn from your mistakes. Adapt as quickly as possible. Move forward in blitzkrieg fashion.

Let's focus on closing 2020 strong and #MakePersonalGrowthSexy.